What does she lack? Balance? Maybe and maybe not!
Most of independent women are single and it is believed that they want to be the man in a relationship or marriage. Believe you me this is true, some women, just because they have money and everything and probably earns a lot more than a man. They are condition to believe that automatically it makes them the head of the house, which is wrong. Is this saying that we are scaring off our men? Hell yes! But have ever looked on the other side of the story?
Look, a man was designed to bring security to a woman's life, this is connected to his manhood and self-worth. So some men define themselves by how much they make and what they can give a woman and that's their nature. At times a man's finances determines the success of the relationship because when he earns a little meaning when he cannot provide more, it makes him feel worthless and he opt for a woman who has lesser than him. So he can be able to provide for her.
Most of the times when a woman provides more than a man, usually the man becomes unfaithful, because he goes out there to look for a woman he can settle with in terms of providing and being the head. So because independent women are linear thinkers, self-reliant, have structured goals, self-sufficient, and committed to their cause, therefore they cannot stand someone who doesn't have a clear direction of his life because to them being unfaithful is taking all of their focus. They feel like they have to now pause their goals and dreams and pamper a child who isn't willing to grow up, but to men it’s a way of coping and getting all the attention he need from both the side chick and the main one.
The moral of the story is that, not always that women who are independent are single because they don't respect men, they sometimes cannot deal with a man who isn't willing to grow, even if he is still faithful, he has to show that he is willing to grow financially. So that they can both have a stability in life.
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