Men hurt too

Its deeply disheartening how some of us women, treat men. We hurt and call them names. Just because they are physically strong, it doesn't mean they are emotionally strong. We live in a society where anger is the only emotion a man is allowed to express without any negative sanctions, that's why male anger is a sure sign of depression.

Believe you me, I am not trying to advocate for men but I need us to understand that they do have feelings too! Some men may be even more sensitive than most women. But you will never know it. Our society has are conditioned us to believe that men are wired to suck it up, to man up, and to avoid confrontation.

A friend of mine who is now a divorcee, once told me how his ex wife used to abuse him verbally. He said he couldn't even say anything because she was always on his case. Coming back from work to home used to be a hustle to a point where he slept at the garage one day. He said, I came back home and she was yelling like she used to, therefore he chose to mask his depression with anger because it was the only way to show some form of emotion without looking weak and vulnerable.

Really? Are we that hurtful? After doing a research on this, it was proven that, most men who are abused emotionally by their partners are usually on the look out for someone whom can give them peace. Therefore they will go out there and cheat intentionally because they want a peace of mind.
Men do not want to argue with women. They despise it! So whenever you yell at him, he will keep quite but it will eat him up on the inside to a point where he looks for someone who will not do the same, thus most of them cheat. Sometimes its because they cannot stand your yelling or express how they feel.

Talk to your man with respect. Show him love, love comes with peace. When there is peace in the house, everything else will go accordingly!