Why must you settle for less, you deserve better!

Most of women have a long list of what they are really looking for in a man or what qualities they want from a man but in most cases they date the opposite of what they have ever dreamed of. Some will say they found love in strange places, and some would say they gave up looking for 'Mr Right' because there is nothing like that.

We find love in the strange places, yes but what is love?
Is love about money, looks, style, accent, voice, intelligence or inner beauty?

Most of ladies settle for money rather than love, yes some confuse love with money and others settle for what the public thinks rather than love and that's where we get it wrong. I don't know how you define love, but I believe that love is a feeling that is within, a great feeling for that matter and it is not based on material but more in emotions. 

I hear a lot of ladies saying that dating a married man is fun and you get your freedom of doing anything you want but I beg to differ...
I have seen most ladies who date married men and still miserable, with a lot of fear. I have seen them pretending to be happy when they are not, and I quickly realized that they know nothing about love. Look, there is nothing in this world that is more great and beautiful than having your own person, the one that you can call at anytime, see him at anytime you wish and do anything with him.

 Now if you are saying that dating somebody's husband is exciting then you need to experience what real ladies are experiencing out there. When you date someone who is married, please take your time and realize that you are been used by a person who ONLY wants to satisfy their selfish desires. 

You will agree with me that women get more attached easily than men. Women wants love, and women were created to be loved. When we start a relationship out of fun we end up hurting ourselves. We start doing things that make us more attached to those people, but when we started it was all about having fun. Getting attached means that there are lots of emotions involved in that. Now the problem starts when your emotions are involved and the partner does not feel the way you feel simply because it was all about having fun. If you are dating a person who is emotionally attached to someone else wouldn't you hurt yourself?

What is love? Is it fun, is it hurting ourselves, is it degrading our standards?  

Religion and politics also plays an important role in our relationships, imagine dating a person who doesn't believe in your belief. Imagine trying to make them understand how important those two things are to you. Would you give up politics or religion for what you think its love?

Most of women want a man with money, for financial securities maybe. What will happen when you get a man with money but don’t have the qualities that you looking for in a man, would you give it up for money?

Don't be desperate for love because desperation is a weak emotion and it will produce weak results. Always remember that Love must create US without destroying ME. If you have to give up almost everything you loved for a relationship/marriage to work, it might catch up with you in a long run. 

Know your worth as woman, you are meant to be loved, you are not anyone' second choice. Money cannot be associated with love nor happiness.

Don't settle for anything lesser than what you have ever dreamed of, you deserve better.